1 Peter 3:3 “Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of
plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of
apparel;
4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not
corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is
in the sight of God of great price.”
1. The Outside Woman
2. The Inside Woman
1. The Outside Woman
Verse three: “Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of
plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of
apparel;”
This is where the vast majority of the people of this world live.
They live FOR the outside ... for the LOOKS! This is because … they
are dead on the inside of themselves. They live their lives … seeing
the outside. It is all about EXTERNALS. Their eye gate is where they
take “inside” the “outside” of things ... the outward appearance of
things. What they see … is of the primary importance to them. This
is why “plaiting the hair” [known as a hairdo] takes such a
prominent place in a woman’s life. This is why there is so much
emphasis on the “apparel” [or clothes] of a woman. It is for
SHOW!
This is also, true for men. Men [primarily] judge other men based on
what they see on the outside of a man. This is where all the
emphasis is for “natural man” … the OUTSIDE of things.
Now, why is this so? This is so because the inner man is dead to the
things that are spiritual in nature. Do you have a problem believing
this? Would God’s word change your mind? Then let me quote the
Spirit of God in First Corinthians chapter two verse fourteen to
you. Listen to me. “But the natural man receiveth not the things of
the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he
know them, because they are spiritually discerned.” [1 Corinthians
2:14] We do not comprehend spiritual things … in our natural state.
This is our lot, my dear friend. We have all come into the world
CARNAL [“natural man”] with the inner man
DEAD to the spiritual
things. SIN has done a “hammer job” on us all.
Here is the summation of what I am saying. The lost people of this
world are “wrapped up” [so busy] with the carnal things of this life
… consumed with eating and drinking and making a living … just as
the BOOK says in Isaiah chapter twenty-two verse thirteen.
“And
behold joy and gladness, slaying oxen, and killing sheep, eating
flesh, and drinking wine: let us eat and drink; for to morrow we
shall die.” [Isaiah 22:13] Is not this thing so? “We the people”
[CARNAL man] say it this way: “let us eat and drink; for to morrow
we shall die.” Has not God and the word of God “nailed it on the
head” … concerning us?
Now, there are carnal things, and there are spiritual things. Read
with me in Romans fifteen, verse twenty-seven: “It hath pleased them
verily; and their debtors they are. For if the Gentiles have been
made partakers of their spiritual things, their duty is also to
minister unto them in carnal things.” [Romans 15:27]
“Spiritual
things” and “carnal things” are in the same verse. God is making a
distinction.
Let me repeat this. There are carnal things, and there are spiritual
things. Read with me now in First Corinthians chapter nine, verse
eleven: “If we have sown unto you spiritual things, is it a great
thing if we shall reap your carnal things?” [1 Corinthians 9:11]
“Spiritual things” and “carnal things” are in the same verse. God
makes a distinction.
Well, my friend, we all put the emphasis … on the wrong things, the
carnal things … to our own hurt.
The OUTSIDE WOMAN is for SHOW!
2. The Inside Woman
Verse four: “But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that
which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet
spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.”
We need to put the emphasis on the inner man. Verse four here in
First Peter calls it “the hidden man of the heart”. If we would only
“line out” with the BOOK of God, and so-to-speak
“put the horse
before the cart”, then we will see the importance of having
“the
inner man” being made alive [or quickened] to the “spiritual things”
of God … by being BORN AGAIN. “Being born again, not of corruptible
seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God, which liveth and
abideth for ever.” [1 Peter 1:23]
When a man or woman gets “saved by the blood” of Jesus Christ …
“the
hidden man” inside … becomes a new man [a new creature as it says in
Second Corinthians 5:17]. The new man is a spiritual man. The
spiritual man [“the hidden man of the heart”] will see beyond the
outside of things. He or she will see beyond the mere physical …
beyond the outward appearance.
You say, “Brother St.James, where are you going with this?” I will
tell you where, my friend. The believer in Jesus Christ [a woman in
this verse], is to exhibit “the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit”
… to all those who are in the world … to a lost and dying world.
Remember, those who are in this old world … can only see the outward
… the outside of things [the visible things] of this life. They
cannot see the invisible things.
The true Christian woman shows “the inside” [her “hidden man of the
heart”] on “the outside” … through her “apparel” by what she wears.
This is what the Spirit of God is saying here. The spiritual woman
testifies to GOD and to MAN … by her clothes and … how she adorns
herself [by her hair, by her wearing of gold, and by the putting on
of her apparel [clothes].
But there is something else here for us to see. How a woman adorns
herself … forms part of her worship to God [as the Holy Spirit
confirms to us in First Timothy chapter two, verse nine]. Let’s read
from there. “In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in
modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided
hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; But (which becometh women
professing godliness) with good works.” [1 Timothy 2:9-10] Look at
the context is here [note how the women are to worship God. They are
… in like manner as the men … to worship [in verses one thru eight].
A true Christian woman’s “modest apparel” is part of her worship to
God.
The bottom-line … the women’s adornment comes forth from the “hidden
man of the heart” and is modest and gender distinctive.
Search the Scripture, my friend.
In Titus 2:10, the Bible shows us that we as believers need to adorn
the doctrine of God in all things. All true believers in Christ
Jesus [as a group] are identified as the body of Christ, which is
called the church. [Colossians 1:24] The church is always identified
as a bride. The word “adorn” is always used in the Bible to refer to
a female activity: i.e., “as a bride adorned for her husband” and
“as a bride adorneth herself”. In Jeremiah 31:4, it’s:
“O virgin of
Israel: thou shalt again be adorned …”, and again it’s a female
activity. [Israel is a type of a woman.] Men deck themselves [“decketh”
as in Isaiah 61:10], and women “adorn” themselves according to the
pure words of God. [The exception to this is located in Jeremiah
4:30. In this instance “deckest” is in regard to backslidden
Israel.]
Search the Scripture, my friend.
Furthermore, for the woman, her apparel is to be orderly or showing
order. The design of women’s apparel should be “modest”
showing the
creation order by their adorning “themselves, being in subjection
unto their own husbands.” “For the man is not of the woman; but the
woman for the man.” [I Corinthians 11:8] God created the man first,
then, he created the woman second. Her apparel will be modest if it
reflects the order found in the creation as recorded in Genesis. Her
apparel will be modest if it shows her worship to God as we found
earlier in I Timothy 1:9. Her apparel will be modest if it maintains
the gender distinction as commanded to Israel in Deuteronomy 22:5.
“The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither
shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are
abomination unto the LORD thy God.”
Search the Scripture my friend.
There are only five recorded instances of breeches [also known as
pants or trousers] being worn in the Bible, and all five times men
are wearing them. [See God’s instructions concerning “breeches” in
Exodus 28:42, 39:28, Leviticus 6:10, 16:4 and Ezekiel 44:18.] Never
in the pure words of God are breeches or pants shown to be a woman’s
garment.
In review: the true Christian woman shows “the inside” … by her
“hidden man of the heart” … on “the outside” … through her
“apparel”
by what she wears. The spiritual woman testifies to GOD and
MAN … by
her clothes and … by how she adorns herself.
The INSIDE WOMAN is an ornament of great price to God.
1 Peter 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own
husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the
word be won by the
conversation of the wives;
1 Peter 3:2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with
fear.
1 Peter 3:3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of
plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of
apparel;
1 Peter 3:4 But let it be the hidden man of
the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a
meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
1 Peter 3:5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women
also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection
unto their own husbands:
1 Peter 3:6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose
daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any
amazement.
1 Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to
knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel,
and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers
be not hindered.
1 Peter 3:8 Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of
another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous:
1 Peter 3:9 Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but
contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye
should inherit a blessing.
1 Peter 3:10 For he that will love life, and see good days, let him
refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile:
1 Peter 3:11 Let him eschew evil, and do good; let him seek peace,
and ensue it.
1 Peter 3:12 For the eyes of the Lord are over the righteous, and
his ears are open unto their prayers: but the face of the Lord is
against them that do evil.
1 Peter 3:13 And who is he that will harm you, if ye be followers of
that which is good?
1 Peter 3:14 But and if ye suffer for righteousness' sake, happy are
ye: and be not afraid of their terror, neither be troubled;
1 Peter 3:15 But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready
always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of
the hope that is in you with meekness and fear:
1 Peter 3:16 Having a good conscience; that, whereas they speak evil
of you, as of evildoers, they may be ashamed that falsely accuse
your good conversation in Christ.
1 Peter 3:17 For it is better, if the will of God be so, that ye
suffer for well doing, than for evil doing.
1 Peter 3:18 For Christ also hath once suffered for sins, the just
for the unjust, that he might bring us to God, being put to death in
the flesh, but quickened by the Spirit:
1 Peter 3:19 By which also he went and preached unto the spirits in
prison;
1 Peter 3:20 Which sometime were disobedient, when once the
longsuffering of God waited in the days of Noah, while the ark was a
preparing, wherein few, that is, eight souls were saved by water.
1 Peter 3:21 The like figure whereunto even baptism doth also now
save us (not the putting away of the filth of the flesh, but the
answer of a good conscience toward God,) by the resurrection of
Jesus Christ:
1 Peter 3:22 Who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of
God; angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him.