1 Peter 3:5 “For after this manner in the old time the holy women
also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection
unto their own husbands:
6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye
are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.”
1. Trust In God
2. Call Him Lord
3. Do Well
1. Trust In God
Verse five: “For after this manner in the old time the holy women
also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection
unto their own husbands:”
The only women in the world that will follow Sarah “after this
manner” is a true daughter of Sarah. [A Bible-believing woman is a
daughter of Sarah.] The women that follow Sarah “after this manner”
are TRUSTING in God. They are trusting in God by
FAITH through
GRACE. The flesh cannot follow Sarah! Many women in the flesh have
tried but have failed. Why is this so? This is so because it will
take a BORN AGAIN woman … filled with the Spirit of God to trust in
God “after this manner.” Where are you, my sister? Where are you in
this whole thing?
Now, you may be saying, “Brother St.James, it is easy for you to
preach this whole thing about women … because you are not a woman.”
Well, Amen to that, my sister. But let me answer you by asking you a
question. We do have a BOOK from God, do we not? Now, if we believe
the BOOK [the King James Bible in the English language] then, we
need to obey God in whatever HE asks of us. Is not this fair?
The “holy women” of generations past have set the
GOLD STANDARD for
all the HOLY WOMEN living today. The way these women
“adorned
themselves” showed their subjection to “their own husbands”. They
did not “wear the pants” in their homes. Amen! It was the men that
“wore the britches”. The men were in charge in their homes and in
their marriages! Now, this in no way shows the inferiority of a
woman. And it goes without saying that many women are smarter [or
more intelligent] than their own husbands. Amen to that! Listen to
me. It is not a matter of inferiority [or superiority]. It is a
matter of ORDER. God is a God of ORDER.
HE has put [by DESIGN] the
woman in the role of subjection governmentally under her husband,
even though she is to be at the side of her husband [or spiritually
his equal]. This is all shown so clearly to us by the Spirit of God
in First Corinthians chapter eleven in verse eleven: “Nevertheless
neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the
man, in the Lord.” [1 Corinthians 11:11] Do you have a believing
heart? You need to ask yourself this.
2. Call Him Lord
The first part of verse six: “Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling
him lord:”
The world laughs [mockingly] … when they read verse six. [They mock
this BOOK all the time.] They laugh with a DERISIVE laugh at this:
“Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord:” They say …
“no wife
should ever refer to her husband … as lord.” Really? Well, the
TRUTH
here is that only a daughter of Sarah can do this [“whose daughters
ye are”]. And she does this through her FREE WILL, mind you.
Now, can I ask you another question? Am I saying to you that all you
Christian wives should be calling your own husbands … “lord”? Well,
what should I say? Should I not say, even “as Sara obeyed Abraham,
calling him lord”? Would I not be just “lining out” with the Holy
Ghost here?
Now, just close your eyes here for a moment, then imagine seeing
through your minds-eye all our homes and families … returning to the
old paths of “the holy women” who lived “in the old time”. Revival
would be here! The “old paths” … are better than the new paths! It
is good for a wife to “reverence” her husband. [Now, I am not …
promoting here … the notion of a wife worshipping her husband. God
forbid! Husbands are sinners! WORSHIP belongs to God only.] Again a
wife should “reverence” her own husband. Do not believe me! Check
the veracity of this out for yourself. This is from God Himself … by
the Spirit of God and is found in Ephesians chapter five, verse
thirty-three: “Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so
love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence
her husband.” [Ephesians 5:33]
3. Do Well
The second part of verse six: “as long as ye do well, and are not
afraid with any amazement.”
Sisters: DO WELL! DO NOT BE AFRAID! What is needed is this. You need
to determine within yourselves … to DO RIGHT! Bible-believers are
told to not be CONFORMED to this old world in Romans chapter twelve.
Verse two, says this: “And be not conformed to this world: but be ye
transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is
that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.” [Romans 12:2]
Reverence your husband! Be a DAUGHTER of SARAH.
Now if what I am saying here … is not of God … then reject what I am
saying to you. You need to PROVE all things! You need to
TRY “the
spirits whether they are of God.” [1 John 4:1]
Is it God speaking to
you, or is it the Devil?
Here is the PRINCIPLE that I am trying to give to you. Are you ready
for this? Now here it is.
“The Bible-believing Christian needs to determine the spirit of the
age in a particular matter, and then, with deliberate action, strike
out in the opposite direction in that matter!”
Here is another question for you. How do the wives in America treat
their own husbands? Well, do I need to say any more? [The answer is
obvious.]
Then, what should you do? You need to strike out … in the opposite
direction in this matter … to the glory of God.
Wives “reverence” your husbands. If you have it within you, then
call him lord.
Wives if you obey God in this very thing, [“as long as ye do well,
and are not afraid with any amazement”] then … God will bless you,
and God will bless your homes! Amen!
1 Peter 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own
husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the
word be won by the
conversation of the wives;
1 Peter 3:2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with
fear.
1 Peter 3:3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of
plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of
apparel;
1 Peter 3:4 But let it be the hidden man of
the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a
meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
1 Peter 3:5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women
also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection
unto their own husbands:
1 Peter 3:6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose
daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any
amazement.
1 Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to
knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel,
and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers
be not hindered.
1 Peter 3:8 Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of
another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous:
1 Peter 3:9 Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but
contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye
should inherit a blessing.
1 Peter 3:10 For he that will love life, and see good days, let him
refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile:
1 Peter 3:11 Let him eschew evil, and do good; let him seek peace,
and ensue it.
1 Peter 3:12 For the eyes of the Lord are over the righteous, and
his ears are open unto their prayers: but the face of the Lord is
against them that do evil.
1 Peter 3:13 And who is he that will harm you, if ye be followers of
that which is good?
1 Peter 3:14 But and if ye suffer for righteousness' sake, happy are
ye: and be not afraid of their terror, neither be troubled;
1 Peter 3:15 But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready
always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of
the hope that is in you with meekness and fear:
1 Peter 3:16 Having a good conscience; that, whereas they speak evil
of you, as of evildoers, they may be ashamed that falsely accuse
your good conversation in Christ.
1 Peter 3:17 For it is better, if the will of God be so, that ye
suffer for well doing, than for evil doing.
1 Peter 3:18 For Christ also hath once suffered for sins, the just
for the unjust, that he might bring us to God, being put to death in
the flesh, but quickened by the Spirit:
1 Peter 3:19 By which also he went and preached unto the spirits in
prison;
1 Peter 3:20 Which sometime were disobedient, when once the
longsuffering of God waited in the days of Noah, while the ark was a
preparing, wherein few, that is, eight souls were saved by water.
1 Peter 3:21 The like figure whereunto even baptism doth also now
save us (not the putting away of the filth of the flesh, but the
answer of a good conscience toward God,) by the resurrection of
Jesus Christ:
1 Peter 3:22 Who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of
God; angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him.